Sorry it’s been so long since I’ve posted. I’ve noticed y’all really enjoy my “What do guys do when they ‘hang out’?” post so I decided to do another one of those dynamical posts. If y’all have anything else y’all wonder feel free to post a comment and I’ll (probably) do it for you. Please don’t get offended when I group all girls into one group. I realize not all girls are like this and I don’t mean this post to offend anyone.
Usually when girls fight they bicker and talk about each other and it’s really obvious that they’re in a fight or at least not very happy with each other. Guys, particularly close ones, behave differently. I’m not sure why we act differently, don’t know why we’re socialized the way we are but when we’re upset we don’t fight, talk about each other, or make it obvious in any way. You may be thinking ‘wow! that’s great..’ but if you know what I’m talking about you know it’s much worse.
One way it can be worse is you never know what they’re thinking. When girls get over their fight (whenever that happens) it’s obvious. They stop sticking their noses up at each other and just get along. Sure, the relationship might not be perfect but it’s do-able and progress is underway. When guys fight, however, it’s hard to tell if one of them is over it or if they’re still upset. This can be frustrating and confusing, as you can imagine.
Another reason it’s worse is, one way we as humans overcome things is by talking it out with people. Girls are good at this because they often have a handful of people that they can text, call, message, etc and it would be normal. Guys work differently and I think people assume that guys either don’t fight/get upset or that they just shouldn’t. This can be hard because without this outlet, we have to keep it in and overcome it single handily.
Guys do a really good job just going with the flow and acting normal but this can be really confusing, even though we’re told not to really think that personal. I guess in the end we should be glad that we’re socialized differently, what a boring world this would be if we weren’t?